Family Life

After reading a recent blog post about the elusive “f” word, I was inspired to publish my own piece about the irony of CF and family life. I feel that some people simply do not understand the grasp that CF has on my life. One of the areas that has been most affected by the disease is my personal life.

To most people, having a family is something that is taken for granted. It is a natural part of life, a right of passage if you will. However, to those of us living with CF, having a family represents something much more. It is a dream, a desire, an underlying notion that consumes our every decision. There is an inherent selfishness that saturates the idea. Abandonment, desertion, rejection; all of these idea’s comes into play when a CF patient decides to start a family. After all, we will, at some point in time, be forced to leave our loved ones behind. That being said, don’t we all – healthy or unhealthy – face the same predicament?

In my opinion, there is only one factor that should be considered when an individual decides to start a family: love. All other barriers, all other hurdles and all other difficulties can be overcome if love exists.

Part of living with CF is living with limitation; however, there are some things that we must not let the disease affect.